A cougar is generally differentiated from a "puma" who is said to be a cougar minus ten years. A puma is often regarded as a woman under 40 who prefers younger men while a cougar is often used for women in their 40s and 50s who seek out younger men who are at least ten years younger than themselves.
Wellness expert Dr Lulu Marquez defended cougars in , saying many women are just naturally attracted to younger men , while some tend to take that route to make up for the years they lost during their failed marriages or relationships. And in a reality show called The Cougar aired in America which featured an older woman choosing a boyfriend from 20 younger men. Sitcom Cougar Town, starring Courteney Cox , followed in the same year and has run for six seasons.
She is not interested in drama or games, as that would interfere with the pleasure she enjoys. My friend says I'm a cougar because I'm having sex with a younger guy, but I didn't hunt him down - he approached ME! When an older woman desires a much younger man and pounces on it's prey. That cougar just devoured that young man. A woman 40 years or older, in her sexual prime, emotionally more mature, healthy and energetic.
She dates, plays with or marries a younger man that can keep up with her. Due to her strong presence, knowledge, ego management and self cultivation a Cougar is more appealing and sexy to younger men that don't like games, don't want children, and they are deeper than the average male under The most dominant interest in Cougars is their deeper charm that is not based on shallow concepts of beauty and also their managed temperaments as they are not driven by hormonal imbalances that cause jealousy, competition and other foul behavior common to women under 40 she's been there, done that.
There are negative ideas being projected onto Cougars by threatened hormonal women and shallow males that couldn't handle a real Cougar anyway! These types can have each other, they are not part of the Cougar Power reality.
The under dressed women over 40 that sleaze around at bars "hunting" young males cannot be called Cougars. They skeezed around before they matured and just continue to do so. Another sitcom, CBS's Accidentally on Purpose , features Jenna Elfman as a late 30s woman impregnated by a year-old on a one-night stand. Then there is the reality TV show called The Cougar in which a year-old real estate agent and divorced mother-of-four chooses from among a pack of young men in their early 20s eager to date her.
Neither is it just TV. Jennifer Aniston, apparently without irony given her media status as the symbol of older single women in America, is preparing to feature in a film called Pumas. She and her co-stars are women in their 30s who enjoy the romantic attentions of much younger men. Pumas are meant to be slightly younger cougars-in-waiting. Michelle Pfeiffer, 51, recently played a woman courtesan tasked with the seduction of a much younger man in the film Cheri.
She received great reviews, based mainly on her continuing beauty. Then there are those who have been branded "real-life cougars" by the media, such as Madonna, 51, who is dating year-old Jesus Luz, a Brazilian model, and Mariah Carey who is 11 years older than her new husband, Nick Cannon.
Bizarrely, the Indian actress Freida Pinto, who is just 24, was given the label in some parts of the tabloid press when she started dating her co-star from Slumdog Millionaire Dev Patel, The phenomenon has crossed the Atlantic: one newspaper recently crowned year-old actress Amanda Redman "Britain's favourite Cougar".
Redman, whose long-term partner Damian Schnabel is 40, said the men she had found to be most caring, sensitive and nurturing were all younger. Previous boyfriends include Oliver Boot, who is 22 years younger than she is, and the actor Adam Rayner, 20 years her junior. As for non-celebrities, a growing number of people are signing up to dating websites designed for older women and younger men. Even holiday operators are trying to cash in.
At the same time, numerous dating evenings for self-declared cougars are held across America, where older woman can meet and date the younger men who desire them. Some commentators have hailed the entry of the term cougar into the mainstream as a sign of female liberation. They say the TV shows, films and events are showing off a powerful female sexuality.
For example, few would bat an eye at a dating show featuring a man picking from women much younger than himself. Cougars, perhaps, are simply claiming the sexual high ground from the sex that has traditionally held it. Author Valerie Gibson, who has written a book called Cougar: A Guide for Older Women Dating Younger Men , has defended the term as an example of liberation: "A cougar is the new breed of single, older woman — confident, sophisticated, desirable, and sexy.
She knows exactly what she wants. What she wants is younger men and lots of great sex. What she doesn't want is children, cohabitation or commitment.
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